Love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round; cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you; self control will, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life. Happily married people see better people than the ones they married, and catch strange feelings at times, but understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that destroys that impulse.
You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love. We are fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. When the emotional feelings drop, After then, you'll realize that it's your responsibility to make the relationship work and not Love's responsibility. Relationships cannot be ready made. You have to build it and it's never always just about feelings of love, but commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever; it's determination and commitment.
Everyone falls in love but as for staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that. That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions. Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career. It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough; at some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together; you can scale through the trying time by being focused and committed. The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self disciplined. Sticking to one person is not natural, you must develop yourself to do that. It works great and perfect with people of like minds, people of the same beliefs and people that share the same school of thought.

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